Category: Dating and Relationships
subject says all. Come on people, I know you've got some stories. To answer, yes, I have been, and still am in love. We met on hotbraille, and he's the most special thing in my life. I was so nervous the day we met in person. I was holding my breath as he walked through the door. But when he touched my hand for the first time, I knew. I knew that he was the one for me. and all the times I questioned that, when we were together again, I knew I was a fool. He is everything to me. I want him to know that. So, come on. What's your story?
hotbraille?
I met my beloved at a Manson concert we were moshing like a mad men when Angel With The Scabbed Wings began,the crowd pushed sideways to get a better view of Manson's antics,Ardeth crashed in to Ally & I, she was very embarrassed and quite impressed,we were highly amused and interested.
We met outside where she realised that i was blind,Ardeth then put her big foot in it by asking "Why were you in a moshpit when you cant see where its safe to mosh" i replied laughing "why you there when your unable to stay on your feet".
She laughed and we went from there its been 8 years now and her touch still makes my heart somersaults.
Come on people. I post this last night, and now it's already at the bottom of the "topics with new posts" section? Let's have some more of your stories!
First of all for Party Gal, I'll tell you what HotBraile was next time we talk. LOL More or less it was another site like this one but is now defunked. And i am in love at the moment, as all my friends know on here. One year ago on Halloween, I met Amanda in person after chatting with her for a couple of months online. We met on a personals site, and it just seemed there was something there. A friendship developed, and the in-person meeting went well. We went for coffee and just sat there for more than two hours, talking. Next thing you know, we were rapidly developing feelings for each other. We confirmed a relationship on Nov 17 (anniversary cards welcome when the time comes haha). And here we are, about th celebrate the one-year, still going stronger and stronger by the day. That's the sap from Leaf for the day.
Leaf/ You rock! Right on!
Well, anyway, here's my own sappy little romance novela.
I met my beloved, hahaha, (I never thought I'd ever use that word in that context), TL/TheListener, right here, on our very own, zone bbs. TL lives in UK and I live here in US in Washington State. We became friends near the end of May and early part of June. Things and circumstances led up to us becoming close as friends, and things slowly but surely progressed from there.
We'll be together for 3 months tomorrow, and have already met in person. In fact, he's coming over again in just over three weeks, and if things go acording to plan, my daughter and I will be flying to Wales UK where he lives for Christmas and New Year Holidays.
Tl and I are very much in love, and equally as crazy and as serious about each other, and about our relationship.
So yeah!
I guess that just about covers it!
Charis
ok, so here it goes. Radio man and I have been together for 4 years. We met one an other at a school for the blind, and living in the same place for 4 months surely did help our relationship. We first became friends, and then developed a type of understanding for one another that no one could ever comprehend or take away from us. We held on to that when times got tough, but today we are going strong. We went through three years of long distanceness, but managed to keep it together. Now we live in the same city, and thats made things a whole lot easier. We confessed our love to one an other on sept 12 in an ellivater. It was cute. I know he is the one for me...
8 years gone in a flash! And burnt out like a feckin firework.
well I sure thought I was, but I've been hurt so many times before I dont know how i'd react to someone actually loving me.
yep .. same here. I would not have a clue what muetral love is like but I guess we'll figure it out if it's meant to be!
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yes i have. who and how and where i know him. hmmmm i can't tell at the moment. let time tell by itself if this the real relationship.
Have I ever been in love? So many times I thought I was, and how wrong was I, I thought I loved the girls that claimed that loved me, but they obviously didn't. Will I ever be? I doubt it. What the fuck's love anyway, does it even exist? It's all about materialism and sex, so I think I'll just give up...
don't give up. you'll find her when you're least expecting it. that's how i found him... *big hugs to wildebrew*
define love,
I eman... everyone may or may have not, thought they've been in love, but when you are in love, you'll know.
Have I ever been in love? Yes...I have. Although I'm no longer in that relationship and have moved on to bigger and better things since, I know I was in love with him, and I'm sure he was in love with me.
no ive never been in love but i know that when the time comes i will be.
Inlove? Yes. But only on my own. I have loved, but never been loved. So... story of my life. You love the guy, but he doesn't love you back. It's always been that way.
Oh yes, I've been in love and I still am. But my first boyfriend, that was an internet relationship, fooled me very badly and so I swore to myself that I'd never have a relationship anymore with people I haven't met. I'm happy now.
You know, it's funny. When I posted the reply before this one, I never thought I'd be here. And, now to say that, I am now happily with someone who has loved me for 4 years, never failing. I have always loved him but now my love is growing in to something entirely different. We started out as friends, then grew closer to a brother sister sort of thing, then, I started seeing him as a man who loved me for me, a man who would give anything to be with me, a man who when he loves he loves with all of his heart. He is everything I've always wanted and looked for, and, More. I am so glad he loved me unfailing for so long. I am thankful to The Ice Master for he is that wonderfull man, and I'm proud to say it. Just thought I would come out here and post this.
You are wonderful your self catlover. And well worth the wait. *smile* I love you now and forever.
You two are to sweet. *smile* Believe me guys, for I get to see it all, well, most of it...With in reason, they are so sweet. Yes, I've been in love a couple of times. My first love is now one of my best friends in the world, the second screwed me over and now I've got the best man in this world. He is so understanding, sweet, caring and so on...I won't bore people with my ravings, but he loves me for me, and I love him for him. We accept the good and the bad, and love each other for both, not simply despite the one.
all the best to all of you my lovely cl sister and lovely ice muster brother. and of course love? well.....
Hmmm,... have I ever been in love? Dunno? Maybe? I think once or twice; not sure... but I'm so used to getting mentally screwed that I really don't know anymore, but I know God will bring me someone someday who will just take my breath away and sweep me off my feet,... and I am waiting for that day. *Smile.*
yeah i have been in love, it's a great feelin i tell ya, never had a girlfriend though, hope i get one some day, that would be so cool
Don't worry, electricity, God will give you someone one day who will just be sooo awesome! I know it seems like a long time to wait; I'm going through it too. A lot of adults and even peers have told me this, and when I'm down about it 'cause the sighty guys at my school don't like me even when I tried dressing like a frickin' prep, I just remembered what some of my very wise friends and close family members/family friends said, and I'm comforted. Sometimes, I feel like, yeah, right, whatever, it ain't gonna happen to me. Really, we have no idea what God has in plan for us! *Smile.*
Love!!!??? What the hell is that??? The first time I thought I was in love, I was at the Carroll Center for the Blind. I was 16 then, and so naive. I met this guy, Mike Fish, who seemed to ador me... Of course, like a fool, I gave him everything. You ladies know what I mean!!! Unfortunately, he lived in Buffalo and wasn't interested in a long distance relationship. Stupidly, I thought I could change that. When he got home, the first thing he did was call up his fucking X, who had broken up with him a week before he met me and they went back out again. I was devistated!!! I felt like he just used me and didn't even have one ounce of affection for me. I had lost it all, my innocence, my belief in men, and my belief in the existence of love!!!
Now, at 19, I still think of him and wonder what was so wrong with me to make him not like me. Why do guys have that affect on girls?
If you really want to know, I did find someone new but somehow it's not the same. The affection is there, but there isn't a lot of trust.
Please respond to this!!!
yep wait's the only word i hate, hahaha
Some people are calace and unfeeling. I think they were born with a stone in place of their hearts...However, they're are some wonderful men out there too. When I was 15 I was used by a guy who said he loved me...He said I was special, and like you, I gave him everything. He dumped me the next day. He didn't care, he just wanted what was between my legs. Next I got engaged to a guy who always let me know I was second choice...Then I literally walked him on him doing another girl, and not even his first choice either. After that, I thought, well, if they're just going to do me and leave me I'll beat them to it...But then I met a man who had been as hurt as I had been. A man who held me when I cry, laughed when I laughed, respected and excepted me for me, talked and fought with me. That was 8 years ago, and we're still loving strong. I'm not saying this to make you wish for it, but I am saying this to let everyone know that there is that special someone, and often they show up when your last expecting it. Two of my best friends know that what I say is right...And you all know about them. Hmm, as far as not trusting the one your with, has he given you any reason not to trust him? Or are you punishing him for what another did? Just curious, because every man and woman is different, and it should never be ass-u-me that just because one hurt you the next will too. *smile* Good luck, and happy love for the future.
Yes I've been in love before and I still am with the same person. I met my girlfriend last summer and we were friends for a while then we started going out about two days later. It was about seven months or so, then I did the stupidest thing I've ever done in my life, I broke up with her cause I liked another person. The mistake was that yes I liked this other person, but I loved her no questions asked and it took me about a day to realize that. So then she was mad at me for about a week and wouldn't talk to me. However, my friend helped us get back together, the only thing now is that because of my mistake and me hurting her her mom is mad at me and probably will be for a long time, but now she'll at least talk to me. Well, that's my story.
Okay. Those who know me, know my story. I've been dumped on more times than I can count. Love was always something I longed for, but could never find. Just when I thought I'd found it, I learned the hard way that I was being used. I was fooled into believing anything that was said to me, and I trusted so easily. After I was deeply hurt by the last two people i was with, I swore I would never trust again. I would never believe another man who told me he loved me. I started to think that all men were after was sex and that's it. I decided that I was done, and was giving up on finding true love. I didn't expect what came next. Feelings that I never knew exsisted in me started to creep up on me. I fought against it, and even tried to flert with others, and ignore it, but the more I tried, the more persistant it got. A man who was my best friend, and who was like a brother to me, was starting to be more to me. This scared the hell out of me, cause it was the last feeling I ever expected. I knew he's always cared for me, and loved me, but I never recipricated. So, now, here I am, wrestling with emotions that were unexpected and frightening at the same time. Well, needless to say, with the help of my Sis, WC, and a few others, I finally just let go of my fear, and gave him my heart. That was the best thing I ever did. I know he loves me, and I am no longer afraid of being hurt. I also know for a fact, that I will be with him forever. The best think to do is, wait to get to know someone till you give them your heart. It is so much more fulfilling. I love him with all my heart, and I for the first time feel safe secure, and loved with out strings attached. Another thing, don't let anyone try to change you. That defeats the perpose. If they don't want you for you, then you don't need them. I'm not used to being myself, cause so many have tried to change me, but the one I love loves me for me. That is so, so, important. Anyway, That is my two sense worth. Don't give up on love and trust. Not all men are jerks. I learned that. *smile*
Yes, I've been in love.
Yes, I've been in love.
Yes, I'm in love right now, with my one true love, Amy, who's username on here is Amy Celine, if you're interested. I just wanted to show the world that I love her with everything I have, and that I would never give her up for anyone. She's the most awesome person who's come into my life. She's sweet, loving, caring, hot (lol), and a lot more. I love you, sweetheart.
Chet
Oh heck yeah, am I ever in love! I'm in love with the best guy in the world. We knew each other from school, but I really started to like him two years ago, and as soon as he asked me out, i started loving him like I know I'll love no one else in the world. You're sweet, babe, and I love you too. Don't know about the hot part so much, but hey, if you think I am, that's all that counts. Love you forever! Amy Celine
Have I ever been in love? WEll, that question is something I'm not so sure I can answer, I believe so, but as far as being so sure, nah, don't think so. I feel that I am though. She's a member of the zone, and she's really cool. I've heard things about her and I'm kind of doubting the relationship, but as time goes on thoughs doubts are fading more and more. She brightens up my day, gives me the strength to be all that I can, and is all ways there when I need her. The way we got together may not of been the greatest, but I think it's safe to say that we're happily in love or at least for now~! see ya laters, Ray /me loves kitten!
Have I ever been in love? Again, that's a question that I thought I could answer several times. However, before, I was proved wrong. Read above if you wish. This person is someone I can go to no matter what. Example: Had week from hell this past week. Nobody to talk to. And yes, I'll agree, the way we got together may not have been the greatest thing for either of us to do, but that was the past. People have told me some rather nasty things about him that happened in the past, and a lot of people who I thought were my friends have stopped speaking to me and started treating me like crap, but I think that if you really love someone you'll look past that, and that is what I've done. I love him with every fiber of my being, and I've already lost a lot of friends over it, but it doesn't matter.
Kitty
im happy to say im in love, and hope to be for a long time to come.
I am not in love, and in a lot of ways, I don't want tobe. I don't know if there is someone for me or not. I doubt it. I'm too much for most people. So anyways, Congratulations for the ones who are in love, and it's okay for the ones who are not.
I say to all the world I AM IN LOVE!!!!! lol
Woo hoo! You go! I wish I was, but anyways. He will come when the time is right.
i was in love with a guy for four years and even though i had some boyfriends. i can never move on, even if i tell him that i've already moved on.
never